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What To Do If A Car Crashes Into Your House: 10 Immediate Steps

If you’re in crisis right now because a car has literally just crashed into your house –…

honesty anonymous personal blog

An Introduction To The Blog

I feel like I owe you an explanation. If you’re anything like me (nosy af, wants all the gossi…

a car crashed into my house sweet chestnut tree

A Car Crashed Into My House And I’m Traumatised

When your whole world (literally) comes crashing down. It’s been a month of hell. I’m wr…

saturn return oak tree

Navigating Your Saturn Return As A Control Freak

And how to let go. I’m a sucker for anticipatory grief, fear and anxiety in general. It falls under …

blackthorn family scapegoat

I Only Have Horrible Things To Say To You

You needed someone to blame for the horrible things that happened to us and you picked me. I was get…

property chain stress travellers joy

Daddy Saturn is Fucking Up My House Move

And my body feels like I’m going through a breakup. Our house move has been in limbo for sever…

angelica reparenting

When Parenting Is A Form Of Therapy

No one tells you that becoming a parent can help heal your own childhood trauma. “Do you think paren…

silverweed house buying anxiety

Buying A House Is Not Trauma Informed

Offer Accepted, with a sprinkle of anxiety and dread. We’re sat in the awkward in-between of “offer …

birds nest orchid attachment trauma

The Baby Hates Me

Parenting is one of the only jobs in the world where the feedback you get does not represent how wel…

Bog rosemary childhood neglect

Over My Dead Body

On the anger that’s eating me alive. This is part three in the Louisa series, find them all he…

living with complex PTSD sea holly

Living inside a trauma brain

And building a life around it. Every now and then I let myself feel pity. I let myself feel sorry fo…

emotional flashbacks

Babe, you activate my nervous system

Why the fuck am I afraid of you? I just got a phone call from a senior work colleague. It’s been hal…

family scapegoat

If I Wasn’t Sure Then, I Am Sure Now.

How do I outgrow her trauma? This is part 2 of a series, find all parts here. Louisa invited me to h…

sibling estrangement

To The Person Who Hates Me The Most

In your vengeance lies mine. I woke up to yet another Facebook announcement that should have been co…

sibling mental illness

The Summer Before She Got Sectioned

And all the things I didn’t do. This is part four of the Louisa series, find all parts here. I…

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Mugwort is associated with memory, dreams, and wandering between worlds. The tea is supposed to offer lucid dreams, but I can do that without tea mwaa ha haaaa.